This post was writen for the Garden Lessons Learned meme hosted by Beth at Plant Postings.
Because I have been gardening for so long I sometimes think I should never make any gardening mistakes or have any failures. The truth is that I still make mistakes and probably always will. But most of my garden failures are not accidental mistakes, but the result of bad habits that I keep repeating, despite twenty-five years of experience. Here are three bad habits that have caused problems for me this spring. I am sharing them here in the hope that this will mean the end of them and that I will finally learn my lesson.
Because I have been gardening for so long I sometimes think I should never make any gardening mistakes or have any failures. The truth is that I still make mistakes and probably always will. But most of my garden failures are not accidental mistakes, but the result of bad habits that I keep repeating, despite twenty-five years of experience. Here are three bad habits that have caused problems for me this spring. I am sharing them here in the hope that this will mean the end of them and that I will finally learn my lesson.
So, Bad Garden Habit #1: keeping plants too long in the hope that they’ll get better if I just give them time.
You see, I think about a plant or plants I really want to grow, I research them to see what conditions they like and where I should plant them, I buy them and put them into the ground with great hopes. Often they live up to my hopes, even do better than I expected, but not always. Sometimes they just sit there, hardly growing, hardly flowering, for weeks and months and even years. A wiser gardener would get rid of them as soon as they realized things weren’t working out, but I find this almost impossible. I keep wanting to give them one more season, one more chance. In dealing with people who disappoint us, I think this is a perfectly justifiable attitude. But these are only plants, after all. And so I let them linger on, spoiling the look of the garden, until they inevitably die, which can take a long time.
Bad Garden Habit #2: buying plants that just won’t grow for me, in the hope that this time, they will.
My special weakness in this area is Hydrangeas. I’ve tried them in lots of places; I’ve amended the soil, I’ve kept them watered, and yet they die, usually within a few months of planting. But still, when I see a spot with morning sun that needs a fairly large, summer flowering shrub to fill it, I immediately think: “Hydrangea.” And at least once a year, I succumb and buy one. Why do I do this to myself? Why can’t I just leave them alone? Maybe it’s the challenge. Maybe it's pride. After all, lots of other people can grow them.
| The only one I can grow is the Oakleaf Hydrangea, and it's only a modified success. |
Bad Garden Habit #3: buying plants before I have the spot prepared to put them in, meaning they stay in their pots for a while after I bring them home.
It happens because buying plants is a lot more fun than weeding and digging. But it isn’t good for the plants, especially if I forget to water them, which sadly has been known to happen. Sometimes I do things the right way round and restrain myself, but not always. As I type this, there are five plants sitting in pots outside my back door. They’ve been there for a week. I know where I’m going to plant them, I knew before I bought them, yet there they sit, because the site isn’t prepared for them yet. Even if I remember to keep watering them, they will become more root bound and their growth will probably be set back even after they are planted out. I know this, so why did I do it? Again?
| This is the planting site, around the new stump. |
Here then are three garden lessons hopefully now learned:
#1 If a plant has been in the garden for a year and it isn’t growing strongly, I'll harden my heart and get rid of it.
#2 I will accept that there are plants that won’t ever grow well in my garden, and stop buying them. I will instead be content with the plants that love me back.
#3 I will prepare the planting site before I buy the plants. And then I will plant them out straight away.
Or write another blog post about it.
